R&L Education
Pages: 142
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Trim: 6 x 9
978-1-61048-679-8 • Paperback • July 2012 • $52.00 • (£40.00)
978-1-61048-680-4 • eBook • July 2012 • $49.00 • (£38.00)
Rosemary Callard-Szulgit, EdD, is an adjunct professor and the current field coordinator for gifted studies in the graduate online gifted certification program at the University at Buffalo. She directs the consulting firm Partners-for-Excellence (www.partners-for-excellence.com) in Rochester, New York and consults both nationally and internationally with gifted children, their parents, and their school districts.
Preface- What is Perfectionism?
- Who Are the Gifted and Talented?
- Common Negative Behaviors of Perfectionists
- The Positives of Perfectionism
- The Negatives of Perfectionism
- How to Recover from Perfectionism
- Most Commonly Asked Questions About Perfectionism With Solutions
- Advocacy
- What Tweaks My Brain Most About Perfectionism
- Gifted Children Speak to Us
Appendix Resources
Bibliography
Index
About the Author
Callard-Szulgit does an excellent job of differentiating between perfectionism and aspiring to excellence.
— Choice Reviews
In this positive, practical, and inclusive book, Rosemary Callard-Szulgit distinguishes between the pursuit of excellence, which is healthy and productive, and perfectionism, which she defines as negative and problematic. She writes about the ways highly capable learners can feel so pushed to meet their goals that they can’t acknowledge their limitations, the ways they become incapacitated by anything less than perfection, and therefore learn to avoid challenge and risk. Acknowledging her own lifelong battle with perfectionism, she writes, ‘Perfectionism hurts! It not only hurts physically and emotionally, it can interfere with relationships.’
Based on decades of experience with gifted learners, Dr. Callard-Szulgit provides proven strategies for helping young people (and their parents!) rework perfectionism into the pursuit of excellence, and reassures parents that ‘with proper counseling, perfectionists can be helped to lead a more balanced and realistic lifestyle.’
— Dona Matthews, author, "Being Smart about Gifted Children"
Dr. Rosemary Callard-Szulgit has succeeded in creating a resource that is rich with anecdotes and true-to-life experiences while also informed by research and theory. Rosemary acknowledges the often-debilitating stresses and challenges of perfectionism but more importantly guides readers in constructive directions that can lead to effective problem solving and the pursuit of excellence.
— Donald J. Treffinger, Center for Creative Learning, Sarasota, Florida; former editor of the Gifted Child Quarterly and Parenting for High Potential