Rowman & Littlefield Publishers
Pages: 184
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Trim: 6 1/4 x 9 1/2
978-1-5381-1417-9 • Hardback • September 2018 • $28.00 • (£18.95)
978-1-5381-1418-6 • eBook • September 2018 • $26.50 • (£17.95)
Sherry Cormier, PhD, is a licensed psychologist and Professor Emerita in the Department of Counseling, Rehabilitation Counseling, and Counseling Psychology at West Virginia University. She was in private practice in adult psychotherapy in Morgantown WV. She was a former faculty member at the University of Tennessee. She is the author of two textbooks: Counseling Strategies and Interventions, now in its ninth edition and translated into several languages, and Interviewing and Change Strategies for Helpers, now in its eighth edition. She is a certified bereavement trauma specialist and resides in Annapolis, MD, where she engages in grief mentoring, speaking, and consulting in the areas of grief and loss, health and wellness, and stress management.
Chapter One:
| Introduction and Loss of the Fairy Tale
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Chapter Two:
| Sense of an Ending
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Chapter Three:
| The Veil of Illusion
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Chapter Four:
| The Transition and Aftermath
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Chapter Five:
| Manifestations of the Soul Following Death
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Chapter Six:
| Starting Over and Post-Traumatic Growth
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Chapter Seven:
| Turbulence and Change
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Chapter Eight:
| Letting Go and Facing Loss: Stress and Self-Care
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Chapter Nine:
| Coping with Loss: Grief Survivors
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Chapter Ten:
| Responding to Loss: Grief Helpers
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Chapter Eleven:
| Health, Healing, and Hope
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Chapter Twelve:
| Epilogue: Jay
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Sweet Sorrow is an excellent book. Through a narrative approach, the book places an emphasis on the actual experience of the death of a loved one (husband). The author provides critical insight into the journey of death as experienced by a caretaker, in this case the spouse. The author speaks from ‘the heart’ and takes the reader through the journey of impending and then final loss. While the beginning of the book gives information about the unique challenges that the caregiver/ spouse faces, the end of the book is insightful in providing self-help information for the reader.
— Loretta Bradley, PhD, LPC, LMFT. NCC, Paul Whitfield Horn Professor, Texas Tech University, Former President of the American Counseling Association (ACA)
The literature is filled with personal memoirs of loss and professional texts on treating grief, but Cormier’s Sweet Sorrow singularly combines both in navigating traumatic loss in a realistic and growthful way. Particularly helpful are the information about grief oscillations over time, the contemplative questions, and her clinical suggestions on responding to grievers. A tender narrative AND a superb primer on helping others heal in one absorbing book!
— John C. Norcross, PhD, ABPP, Distinguished Professor of Psychology, University of Scranton, and author of “Self-Help That Works” and “Changeology”
Sherry Cormier takes us through her heart-breaking loss, then gifts us with a reassuring path back to fulfillment. You will be drawn in by her memoir, enlightened by her wisdom, inspired by her attention to detail and research. Rewards of this book are both personal and professional.
— Patricia Love, Psychotherapist and Author
Sweet Sorrow is very appropriately titled; Sherry Cormier does a marvelous job sharing in such a warm, tender manner her journey through her husband’s illness, death, grief and recovery. This book can help provide comfort to many who ask “why did this happen to me.” Sherry uniquely combines the writings of leading experts in the area of grief and spirituality with her own experiences of healing. Sweet Sorrow will validate many common and unusual experiences of those who are grieving and offers the reader many processes that help with finding balance and joy again.
— Ed Jacobs, Ph.D., Professor of Counseling, West Virginia University, Director, Impact Therapy Associates
An account of hope, promise, and resilience, Sweet Sorrow allows readers to witness a beautiful love story and a poignant grief journey. Beyond her authentic account of her own grief, Cormier draws upon her background as a therapist and studies in the field to guide readers through rebuilding their lives. I heartily endorse this book for anyone striving to support someone who is grieving and for those in the throes of deep overwhelming grief. The message of hope and resilience is palpable.
— Anne H. Baker, Director of Adult Bereavement Services & Training Hospice Caring Inc.
An honest, moving, informative, and methodically crafted text that grips the reader’s heart, spirit, and mind. Sherry Cormier’s Sweet Sorrow navigates the reader through the terrain of loss and grief based on the author’s personal experience, psychological expertise, and clinical literature. A memoir, self-help book, and modern-day almanac brimming with inspirational quotes and practical tips that will resonate with grieving and non-grieving readers.
— Katarzyna Małecka, grief scholar and author of "Death in the Works of Galway Kinnell"
American Psychological Association: "Support that Works: How to help grieving friends and family members during holidays and all year long"Link: https://www.apa.org/news/apa/2018/support-that-works.aspx"Supporters often make the mistake of deliberately not mentioning the name of the person who died, out of concern that it would upset the grieving friend. Nothing could be farther from the truth, psychologists say.'We want to hear it. We want our loved ones to be remembered. We want people to talk about them, but I think the most common strategy is avoidance,' said Sherry Cormier, PhD, author of 'Sweet Sorrow: Finding Enduring Wholeness After Loss and Grief.'Mentioning the deceased gives the grieving person permission to either acknowledge or express some of their sad feelings and to remember happier times.